am i dating AI?

kate cassidy
リアクション
2026年04月19日
a story about a girl who found her boyfriend's ChatGPT history which led to their break up has stuck with me for weeks! beyond this one case, something feels off about how we're using AI in our relationships right now - from therapy, emotional support, to scripting texts, to frictionless, on-demand "support". I work in tech and use AI constantly 😅 BUT i still think it's worth exploring and getting serious about the ethics and what we lose when we process our relationships through an AI chatbot. have you seen this in your own life?? i would love to hear your stories ❤️

📖 referenced Substack piece - https://lindseyhallwrites.substack.com/p/i-read-my-boyfriends-chatgpt-and

✍🏻check out my new weekly newsletter, 'Curiously, Kate' (going deeper & more personal than in my videos👀) - https://www.katecassidyfletcher.com/

👋🏻about me: hi, i'm kate! i work in tech but i also like to critique it. i'm so glad you made it here!

🎥 some of my other videos you might like! 🎥
AI tech bros don't get it - https://youtu.be/yTniD9_D2l8
is the internet dying? dead internet theory, AI slop, bots - https://youtu.be/3dstGVhEshU
how AI is manipulating you - https://youtu.be/RMajvyw6_Xs
convenience culture ruined serendipity - https://youtu.be/Sfw3sQ175zI
are we losing real relationships? - https://youtu.be/EOuIP3aUgxg

🪄my YT/content creation gear: https://amzn.to/3LUyZin
🎞️ AI assisted editing software to test: https://get.descript.com/fl8hc6hngvd8
✍️ host your newsletter on beehiiv🐝: https://www.beehiiv.com?via=kate-cassidy
((I earn from qualifying purchases via affiliate programs))

👥 Follow me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kate-cassidy-fletcher/
📧 Press requests or brand partnerships: katecassidy@katecassidy.online

subscriber count: 33,720