Have you ever wondered why desire changes in long-term relationships?

Many couples experience a drop in sexual desire and emotional intimacy over time, but that doesn't necessarily mean the relationship is failing. In this episode, psychotherapist and sex therapist Luisa Contreras explores the psychological, emotional, and biological reasons desire often fades in committed relationships.

We'll discuss:

✔️ The difference between love and desire
✔️ Why the honeymoon phase ends
✔️ The role of dopamine and novelty
✔️ How stress impacts intimacy
✔️ Emotional labor and resentment in relationships
✔️ Why emotional safety affects attraction
✔️ The connection between individuality and desire
✔️ Responsive vs spontaneous desire
✔️ How couples can reconnect emotionally and physically
✔️ Practical ways to rebuild intimacy

Whether you're married, dating, or simply curious about the psychology of attraction, this conversation will help you better understand why desire changes and what healthy long-term intimacy actually looks like.

💬 Question for the audience:

What do you think impacts desire the most in long-term relationships?

Comment below.

🎙️ Session and Secrets with Luisa Contreras explores relationships, psychology, mental health, intimacy, sex therapy, personal growth, and the human experience.

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